Jess Tholmer
december 2025, another year down
I even had a friend put it in my hands and say, "I think you'll like this." You're all correct, and it was one of the times I've felt most seen all year.
i hated(?) this book: truth & beauty
Maybe one day, hopefully forever from now, when my aunt(s) and both of my parents are dead, I'll be able to write freely about my life experiences.
november 2025, giving thanks?
I wrote about it in a newsletter a few weeks ago, but didn't fully explain the issue. I also won't do that here, but November consisted of:
Feeling bad about myself because I look white but also don't look white, and I never know where to fit in or what to call myself.
what else has me completely booked: november 2025
I started to use threads (instagram's version of twitter) a bit more and then stirred shit up on threads by having an opinion about thanksgiving's existence and my own racial identity.