Jess Tholmer

Jess Tholmer

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Nov
October 2021, you ol' ghoul

October 2021, you ol' ghoul

Things that felt like guarantees big and small — a meal out, a quick shot (either kind), the ability to plan a trip with a friend — just aren’t anymore. Nothing works like it used to work. More importantly, it doesn’t work to push forward for the old way if the old way is gone.
7 min read
30
Sep
September 2021, and the rain's finally here

September 2021, and the rain's finally here

If you’re a romance fan: you’ve gotta get into Jasmine Guillory’s collection. I enjoyed While We Were Dating, though it wasn’t my number one from her. If you’re a romance fan, I guess you might as well pick up Emily Henry’s People We Meet on Vacation as well.
6 min read
31
Aug
August 2021, and now i'm 34

August 2021, and now i'm 34

hbd and happy fall
6 min read
01
Aug
July 2021, and i need a rainy day

July 2021, and i need a rainy day

If you like all of the things I said I liked when writing about With Teeth: With Teeth by Kristen Arnett. If you like graphic novels and/or history: The Best We Could Do by Thi Bui
6 min read
01
Jul
June 2021, baby

June 2021, baby

Also for the record, other than a free digital or physical copy of the book, I don’t get paid when someone asks me to review so you can trust that I actually recommend it. (I upset an author a few months ago for being honest! Sorry!)
6 min read
01
Jun
May 2021, and too much is going on

May 2021, and too much is going on

I don’t even know, y’all. Everything I read this month was so personal or weird so here’s my best attempt besides Women, Race, & Class by Angela Y. Davis. Everyone should read that.
10 min read
30
Apr
April 2021, and I'm gonna talk about abortion

April 2021, and I'm gonna talk about abortion

I say “abortion is healthcare” a lot but that’s because abortion is healthcare. The clinic was nice, they prepped me well, they gave me drugs, the procedure took no time at all but was still very expensive — sounds like healthcare in America to me!
6 min read
31
Mar
March 2021, a month that needs to believe in itself

March 2021, a month that needs to believe in itself

If you want something fun: Taylor Jenkins Reid’s Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo
8 min read
28
Feb
February 2021, a sad, strange little man

February 2021, a sad, strange little man

If you just read one or two books a year: Isabel Wilkerson’s Caste.
11 min read
31
Jan
a selfie of a woman with very long hair

January 2021, it's our anniversary!

I think what I’d most recommend is Luster and Mexican Gothic. Red Pill is great if you feel up to paying close attention and being challenged, and the quitting alcohol book, we’ve been over. Read it if you want! Also, especially if you live in Seattle, support BeeLyn Naihiwet by ordering her book.
11 min read